Friday, May 29, 2009

Phone Call

I think it is one of those nightmares that every mother hopes will never really happen...a phone call. You know, the call that says something has happened to one of your babies. This was our reality on Wednesday night. David and I were at church when we got a phone call. Olivia had fallen and was hysterical. My cousin, Becky was almost as hysterical as Olivia. Olivia had fallen backwards from a couch. No one saw her fall, only heard the thud on the hardwood floor.
We asked Becky to take Olivia to see Uncle Ned, David's brother in law who is an ICU nurse. Ned checked her out and thought she was OK but warned Becky to watch for projectile vomiting. (As a side note...after having 3 little boys with major food allergies and gag reflex disorders, we know the difference between vomiting and projectile vomiting :0) I also called my cousin Eric who is a radiology PA. He was on his way to Becky's to check on Olivia and help calm everybody down. After I called Eric, I found David in the prayer service and asked him to start praying. Our friends Phil and Marie prayed with us and called on Jesus to hold our baby girl.
Even as Becky left Ned's, Olivia was inconsolable. She kept crying for me and complaining that her head hurt. As they pulled into Becky's driveway she projectile vomited. The details you probably don't want but yes it bounced off the seats and windows. Pop Pop then joined them and off the ER they went. The next phone call we got was the one that said..."she is vomiting,we are going to the ER". I would like to tell you that I calmly called on the Lord for protection, placed my daughter in His arms and waited. That would be a lie (a really big one, in fact). I panicked, I started crying and the most overwhelming feeling of helplessness swept over me. My daughter was hurt, she wanted me and I was 5 hours away from her. I could not get in the van fast enough. I headed home to pack, David finished up a few things at church and off we went. As we drove, we waited for updates from the hospital. First, the admissions clerk had to verify my permission to treat and get our insurance info. The good news is that a preschooler with a head injury and vomiting goes back really quickly, no hanging around in the waiting room. Becky and Pop Pop called with each bit of info... one nurse, then another, then a resident. All were reassuring that there was no immediate danger and that she looked good. They were waiting on a doc to request a cat scan.
Meanwhile back at the ranch (I have always wanted to say that :), there was a crowd at Becky's. Eric was still there, my sister Kristi and Megan, Beth and the rest of my boys. David's parents were on their way to the hospital. Somehow in crisis, you know how blessed you are by the measure of support you receive. Meanwhile back at the other ranch (didn't really sound good that time :) our friends and church family were on their knees. When we left the church they had an impromptu prayer meeting for our baby girl. So many of our friends were calling to check on us and waiting for updates. We were being surrounded both in the holy land and at home by family and friends.
Olivia was taken to CT for the scan. She was still crying and in a lot of pain. She kept saying "my head hurts so bad, I can't take it anymore". They were a little over half way finished when she cried that she was sick. She sat up and well, let's just say corn kernels hit the far wall. She was hysterical again and Becky held her to calm her down. The CT tech bribed her with a stuffed animal and she agreed to lay back down for the scan. They completed the scan and she got to ride in a green wagon back to her room. Grandma and Grandpa were there waiting on her.
When to doc came back in she said the CT was normal, no swelling, bleeding or fractures. She said Olivia had a concussion but should be fine. She gave Becky a list of symptoms to watch for and instructions for the night.
By the time David and I got to Becky's they were home from the hospital and Olivia was asleep on the couch. I didn't want to wake her but I had to touch her face and hold her. David and I just stared at her and watched her breathe. Even in vomit stained clothes she is the most beautiful little girl in the world. I never imagined that I would be thankful for a concussion, but I am. It could have been so much worse.
Now, 2 days later, Olivia is playing and swimming like her old self. Children are so resilient. Becky and I are still recovering, we spent most of yesterday in a fog of exhaustion, coupled with reeling from the "could have beens". David went home yesterday after he held her and watched her play most of the morning.

29 What is the price of two sparrows—one copper coina]">[a]? But not a single sparrow can fall to the ground without your Father knowing it. 30 And the very hairs on your head are all numbered. 31 So don’t be afraid; you are more valuable to God than a whole flock of sparrows.

Matthew 10:29-31 (NLT)

How mighty and loving is our God!

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Observations

Our kids are spending the week with family in the holy land (that's north east TN for those of you who were thinking of Jerusalem :) So with a very quiet a few days I made the following observations...
  • In the event of a nuclear holocaust the one surviving plant will be the red cannas around our central heat and air unit.
  • In the event of a nuclear holocaust the one surviving pest will the black widow spider. They are everywhere and never die.
  • Very few people know what Memorial Day is really about. Even fewer actually honor the men and women for whom the holiday is intended.
  • Even early morning sun can sunburn your face.
  • Our house is very dark at night when we don't have to keep bathroom and playroom lights burning bright for little people.
  • Our house is quiet and lifeless without those same little people.
  • Jersey Mike's is worth a second visit even when the first visit left you longing for Subway.
  • Lowe's is the busiest place on earth on Memorial Day.
  • The paint dept. at Lowe's on Memorial Day is unhappiest place on earth on Memorial Day. (glad we just walked by it and were not actually stopping to get paint)
  • God made trees for us, why does it cost $300 to have one in your front yard?
  • True friends are friends no matter how many miles separate you.
  • God is good and faithful and merciful.
  • My husband is one of my greatest blessings.
  • How can I have donated 78 lbs. of stuff to Goodwill and still have a full closet?
  • Maybe I have that hording disease??
  • Hardwood floors are only shiny and pretty before you move in.
  • The Unit is the best television has to offer.
  • Young boys (yes, he is 12 and I refuse to call him a young man, he is still my baby) who work hard with their grandfathers like to call their parents and tell them about it.
  • Little boys who are in potty training bootcamp like to call their mommy and brag about their potty triumphs.
  • Big sisters like to eat lots of strawberries.
  • Mommies really miss their babies.

So anyway, random thoughts and observations from a quiet house and a really clean closet.

Monday, May 18, 2009

An Ear Full

The twins have long had ear problems. They had a few ear infections along the way but the worst issues were ruptures of their eardrums. The first one happened during Christmas break a couple of years ago. If you haven't seen an eardrum rupture...it isn't pretty. (If you are weak stomached, look away.) When an ear drum ruptures, a small hole opens and allows the fluid to seep out. It looks like your worst stuffy nose, only it is coming out of an ear. It really is gross and nasty to look at. Most of all, it is painful to watch. I can only imagine how bad those infections and subsequent ruptures must hurt.
After the third, yes third rupture for each of them (3 weeks ago) I asked the pediatrician to send us to an specialist. The Ear, Nose and Throat doctor took one look and said they should have had tubes after the first rupture. That appointment was Friday. This morning at 6:45 they went in for the procedure.
They were very brave and did great through the whole thing. The surgery center used a gas mask instead of having to start and IV. The procedure lasted less than 10 minutes. The doctor said they had a lot of fluid building back up so it is a good thing we did this today. He also said they have identical scars in identical spots of the back of their ear drums from a previous rupture. I think that may be taking the identical thing a little far boys :)Brave boys in their clown gowns.

Even in hospital garb they are the cutest!


Thursday, May 14, 2009

Could it be...

Happy 4th birthday to my sweet twins. I can't believe they are this old. I am so blessed to have them call me mommy each day.
They came into this world way too early and had a slow start but they have more than made up for that. They are sweet boys with loving hearts, loud screams, picky appetites and big smiles. They sing silly songs and play wild games with hot wheels and spiderman toys. Most of all they love each other. I hope they will always be best friends!
Lucas Stout
Joshua David




Our babies are 4. I can't believe it!

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Mother's Day

As a mommy, I love this holiday. I love, love, LOVE that I have these 4 sweet children who look at me with happy wishes and smiling faces. I am overwhelmed at God's goodness in letting me be their mommy.

As a daughter, this holiday makes me a little sad. I miss my Mom and my Grandmother. What incredible ladies I had in my life!

To all the mommies in my life...Happy Mother's Day.
To those who long to be a mommy, God is Able...Ps 37:4

And to my Mother in law...thank you for being a wonderful mom to your 4 children...the middle one is quite the husband and father!

Thursday, May 7, 2009

National Day of Prayer

“In the beginning of the contest with Britain, when we were sensible of danger, we had daily prayers in this room for Divine protection. Our prayers, Sir, were heard, and they were graciously answered… do we imagine we no longer need His assistance?”
[Benjamin Franklin, Constitutional Convention, Thursday June 28, 1787

More than 200 years ago these words rang out as a group of courageous men met in secret. Their dedication and labors produced what we now know as the United States of America. Ben Franklin was insisting to these founding fathers that prayer must be a part of every step in forming our country and writing our constitution.

At the Constitutional Convention of 1787, James Madison proposed the plan to divide the central government into three branches. He discovered this model of government from the Perfect Governor, as he read Isaiah 33:22; “For the LORD is our judge, the LORD is our lawgiver, the LORD is our king; He will save us.”

The National Day of Prayer began in 1775 when the Continentenal Congress called on a day of prayer for forming a new nation. Abraham Lincoln called for a national day of prayer during the Civil War. In 1952 President Truman signed a law requiring all future presidents to declare a national day of prayer each year. In 1988, President Ronald Reagan signed a bill proclaiming the first Thursday of May as our National Day of Prayer. He commented, "On our National Day of Prayer, then, we join together as people of many faiths to petition God to show us His mercy and His love, to heal our weariness and uphold our hope, that we might live ever mindful of His justice and thankful for His blessing." The celebration has continued since then, with every President observing and issuing a Presidential Proclamation of the day. President George W. Bush hosted a National Day of Prayer gathering every May for his entire 8 years in office. "I am sustained by the prayers of the people in this country. I guess an appropriate way to say this, it's one of the beautiful things about America and Americans from all walks of life is that they're willing to pray for the President and his family. And that's powerful."

We celebrated today on the courthouse steps with many others from our community. As I stood there pledging allegiance and listening to our national anthem, tears filled my eyes. The legacy of our great nation stands above any other nation on the face of this earth. I passionately love this country. As I sang America the Beautiful..."God shed His grace on thee" my heart was full of just how true this is. God laid His hand on the men who founded our country and led them in their divine task of creating this country. I stood beside my treasured friend Mindy, a Candadian citizen who has lived here for a year and half now. I heard her beautiful voice singing those words with all her heart. It was the first time she could sing those words as a resident of the USA. She and I cried as we realized how truly blessed we are to live here where we can gather on the steps of a courthouse and pray to God and worship Him in freedom. In times of prayer when the adults were quiet, my children were playing. There were some who probably thought they were irreverant. To me their laughter was such a sweet sound to me. My children were singing and laughing in complete freedom. I pray the freedom they know as children will still be in place when they are parents. How many children have no freedom to laugh and play while their parents openly worship God??

Prayer lifted up for our community, our state and our nation.

Freedom to wear a t-shirt advertising a Christian band.




“It cannot be emphasized too clearly and too often that this nation was founded, not by religionists, but by Christians; not on religion, but on the gospel of Jesus Christ. For this very reason, peoples of other faiths have been afforded asylum, prosperity, and freedom of worship here.”

[Patick Henry, May 1765 Speech to the House of Burgesses]

“God who gave us life gave us liberty. And can the liberties of a nation be thought secure when we have removed their only firm basis, a conviction in the minds of the people that these liberties are a gift from God? That they are not to be violated but with His wrath? Indeed I tremble for my country when I reflect that God is just, and that His justice cannot sleep forever.”(excerpts are inscribed on the walls of the Jefferson Memorial in the nations capital) [Source: Merrill . D. Peterson, ed., Jefferson Writings, (New York: Literary Classics of the United States, Inc., 1984), Vol. IV, p. 289. From Jefferson’s Notes on the State of Virginia, Query XVIII, 1781.]


"My faith plays a big part in my life... And my faith is a very, it's very personal. I pray for strength. I pray for wisdom. I pray for our troops in harm's way. I pray for my family. I pray for my little girls." George W. Bush




Monday, May 4, 2009

Family and a milestone

We spent a great weekend in Pigeon Forge with David's extended family. As most of you know, David's grandfather Howard was a Pentecostal Holiness preacher. The legacy he left is tremendous. His children and his grandchildren are all amazing people who love the Lord and follow their grandfather in their devotion to family. David and 2 of his cousins followed Grandpa Howard into the ministry. The three of them turn 40 this year. To celebrate their birthdays and to get the family together again, Kelly planned a family reunion. (Thanks Kelly, you did a great job!) It was so nice to see everyone again and to meet some new members of the family. It has been a long time since we were all together, there were a lot of kids there who met for the first time.
The first cousins...Jason, David, Mary Nell, Beth, Amy,
Joel, Andrew, Steve, Chris, John and Scott
The birthday boys...Chris, David and John
(one of them is still 39...my husband is the baby of the crew :)
As a special surprise, all three of them were given a framed copy of their
grandfathers ordination certificate (dated 1935) and a picture of him.
I know this meant a great deal to all of them.
This is the paparazzi trying to get pics of the presents being opened.
I thought this was a funny scene and had to take a pic of them.

These are the second cousins (all except Rachel who was greatly missed)

Jordan, Alex,Landon, Lauren, Amanda Olivia, Thomas
Avery, Joshua, Lucas, Avery, Joanna, Jackson, Leah, Taylor

Joshua and Olivia were a little more excited about having their picture taken than Lucas and Joanna.
On Friday night I decided to paint the little girls' nails. After an afternoon of nonstop playing, they were kind of messy. So we put three of them in the tub to soak their feet. This is Olivia, Avery and Joanna getting ready to have their nails painted.
It was a great weekend that served as a reminder of how important family is to each of us. It also impressed on me the importance of legacy to our children.


We hit a milestone this week...Olivia registered for Kindergarten. I can't believe that my sweet little baby with huge cheeks and black hair is ready to start school...but she is. I am a little prejudice but...she is beautiful!
When we first arrived at school she was a little intimidated.
She held onto David and hid behind him.Eventually she warmed up to the situation and showed off her smile.
She was most excited about meeting up with Piper.
Olivia and Piper (or Shawn Johnson and Nastia Luikin as I call them :)
are great friends and will start school together.

It was a milestone day for my baby girl. I pray her journey through school is blessed and full of happiness and learning.